We all need guidance, but there’s a fine line between asking for advice and being... well, annoying. Here’s how to approach it the right way:
- Be Specific Instead of a vague "Can I pick your brain?", try "I admire your transition from marketing to product management. Could I ask 2-3 questions about that journey?"
- Respect Their Time Suggest a short meeting (15-20 minutes), and be flexible with scheduling. If they’re too busy, ask if you can email your questions instead.
- Do Your Homework Research their background first. Avoid asking things you can easily Google or find on LinkedIn.
- Be Clear About What You Want Let them know what kind of advice you’re seeking—career switch tips, resume review, or job referrals.
- Express Gratitude Say thank you after the conversation—and mean it. A follow-up note or LinkedIn message goes a long way.
Example Message: "Hi Sara, I’m exploring a career path similar to yours and admire your journey. Would you be open to a 15-minute chat sometime next week? I’d love to learn how you navigated your role switch."